I took this picture the day after Christmas . I was playing dominos with my mother, when I noticed the light hitting just right on her wedding day picture. A very small simply framed b&w shot from a random off the street commercial photographer in San Francisco where my parents were married without ceremony as my father went off to war. Not an unusual set of circumstances for a couple of Iowa farm kids who fell in love in high school and took what came their way. I was born in San Francisco two years after this 1942 picture.
For 59 years these two had the most amazing relationship. For real. Alan and Maryanna met at Moville High School. She fell in love with him because he was tall, handsome AND he had a car she says. Oh yes, their parents became friends too, lived nearby, had same life. So how many reasons do you need?
My father passed right in this house on Christmas day 2000, family gathered to say goodbye, about a year after my mom and I got into this now 12 year old super competitive dominos marathon. We keep score. In detail. She is 6 games up after all this time. We are a game playing family, with me losing most games most of the time. I travel the world. Lots of adventure. Yet hanging here, with family, is THE place to be. I have never missed a Christmas at home, often leaving “important” assignments to do so.
Right after I took this shot, my mom said “Oh David, you had better move that picture out of the light. It might fade”.
I don’t think so mom, I don’t think so.